From: Mr Milonga
Ask Arlene,
I’ve heard many people say that they have learnt more from dancing in milongas than they have from going to classes week in, week out.
Many women believe that once they’ve picked up the basics a good leader should be able to lead them. Other women are fed up of going to classes where they outnumber the men and have to spend time waiting for an available man who might be a poor leader.
Many men are happy to be able to lead the basics, as they are not interested in leading ’show moves’, choosing to develop their style in a milonga.
Some people hate learning sequences as they are ‘artificial’.
So Arlene, in your opinion what is the best way to improve as a tango dancer and why?
Dear Mr. Milonga,
I don’t know the best way to improve as a Tango dancer. I only know what works for me, right now. I did all of the lessons and classes in the beginning and then added going to the Milongas. After awhile, I stopped going to classes and focused on the Milongas, partly because of time constraints and partly because the classes didn’t do anything for me. I also had private lessons, and have been to a few workshops.
I have been very lucky to dance with good and experienced dancers when I was a beginner. I am still dancing with those nice men that are still around. I am selective when dancing as I don’t go out much these days, but I am open to dancing with people I don’t know and that seem to have some musicality and dance close embrace and don’t do too many tricky moves.
If I were to give advice to someone starting out, I would suggest what I always do – networking. Go to beginner’s classes from a good teacher and before the Milongas. Get to know people. Go to practicas. Try and dance with people better than you, if possible. Practice, a lot. They say practice makes perfect. I don’t really believe there is a cut and dried formula here. As with any dance form, the more dancing one does, hopefully the more one will improve. Though there are those that started when I did and they seem to have gotten worse. I really don’t get that.
I am sure there are a few people out there that may have an opinion on this one. Over to you.
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